Tuesday, April 17, 2012

Long Distance Relationships

 
We have all either been in one like I am right now, know of someone in one or have just simply heard about them.  Every long distance relationship is different.  In today’s world millions of people live happily being in long distance relationships.  Some have met through online social networks and some because of being in the service.  Others are kept apart due to the work.  My long distance relationship is because of college, which can make it even more difficult.  Whatever the reason for a long distance relationship, the one thing they all share in common is that they are a lot more challenging then other relationships.  Long distance relationships have a lot of do’s and don’ts to be successful but in the end can be the most rewarding for both partners.  Some days you may ask yourself is it all worth it, is the missing and heartache something you can handle.  You want to tell whoever said "absence makes the heart grow fonder" to go jump off a bridge.  You feel alone, sad, and your mind begins to wonder maybe it would be better to end it.  At those times you need to remember that these feelings are natural, that people in ordinary relationships often feel the same way.  You need to realize that missing your partner means you want to be with them and that’s what keeps you going.  Easier said then done, I know!

1 comment:

  1. Haha, I agree... Absence makes the heart grow fonder -- in SMALL doses!! Anything over a couple days.. the missing sensation, turns into pain! Blah. I feel for you.

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